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Community Guidelines

THE RUMII CO PTY LTD, TRADING AS R U MY

R U MY is about finding people you’ll actually want to live with. That only works if everyone feels safe. By using R U MY you agree to these guidelines — and to a zero-tolerance approach to objectionable content and abusive behaviour.

Zero tolerance. Objectionable content, harassment, hate, threats, nudity, and abusive behaviour are not allowed. Accounts that break these rules are removed.
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No objectionable content or abuse

No harassment, hate speech, threats, nudity, or discriminatory behaviour. Treat every member with respect.

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Report anything that’s not okay

Tap the shield on any profile or chat to report. Every report is reviewed by a human, and we act as quickly as we can. Safety-critical reports come first.

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Block anyone, anytime

Blocking hides someone from your Discover, your matches, and your messages — instantly and confidentially, both ways.

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Be real

Real photos, real you. Fake, impersonating, or misleading profiles are removed.

How moderation works

We use a mix of automated checks and human review. Reports are confidential — the person you report is never told who reported them. We review every report and act as quickly as we can; repeat or severe violations result in a permanent ban.

Safety tips

Meet in public first, never send money or deposits before independently verifying a person and a property, and trust your instincts. R U MY is a matching platform, not a party to any tenancy — always do your own due diligence.

Questions or to report off-platform

Email ted@r-u-my.com. See also our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy.